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Mig's avatar

You and your friend are mistreaten in a very traumatic situation. I am very sorry for you both. To you it might help to talk to the medics. I think that they where trying to do good, and might have suffered as well or can explain to you how this could happen... an explanation from people who ment well, can be a massive help. Hope things will work out for you (a little bit) better by taking care of yourself as much possible, mostly in the way possible that other people should have done for you on at least two of the most painfull events in your life, which therefore are now (more or less) harmfull and traumatic, which probably prevent you from recovering at the moment, and block your positive good memories of her partly or even completely is also possible. Good luck, please take good care of yourself!

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J Wolfmoon's avatar

Thank you for you well wishes, it was as at the beginning of lockdown and I'm okay now. I was not there to see them force the mask, her husband told me but I was upset at the time to hear that and wishing so much I had been there to intervene with the medics and to say goodbye. I have said goodbye to her in my own way and I am sure she understood. You are very kind to write that nice letter.

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